A wise person once said "Wisdom is the instantaneous recognition that a crisis is a blessing". We need to remember that an opportunity for self reflection or self correction is a blessing which will not necessarily come wrapped with a tag saying, " this is going to be difficult but ultimately good for you". This is why our reactions to what we interpret as happening to us are the true markers of character rather than the things themselves.
I would like to leave you with 2 messages. 1. Not everything that we think is bad is! Some things may seem bad at first, but turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you. 2. Idlozi is a blessing! Isibusiso hayi isiqalekiso!! Philani. MAD-G